This week, we have no childcare. Our one-year-old normally spends weekdays with a childminder, to whom we pay quite a lot of money to every month. But, the childminder is on holiday this week, and so I’ve taken four days of annual leave to be a full-time parent.
I can’t remember if Christine and I discussed who would look after our one-year-old this week, but we presumably agreed that I was more likely to get the time off. It wouldn’t be fair if Christine was always the one to look after her; traditional gender roles be damned.
Additionally, Christine is working on Friday as well, despite it being a bank holiday. So I have the whole week to entertain a toddler.
Having spent the weekend doing fun things, Monday was spent partly at the supermarket doing boring things – namely, the weekly food shop. But we also went for a bit of a walk, and I took our one-year-old to one of the local parks for a play on the swings. This, of course, had nothing to do with it being a rare Pokémon nest in Pokémon Go, honest. We also dropped in to see my mother-in-law, who lives locally and whom we probably should see far more often than we actually do.
Yesterday, I arranged to meet a friend in Leeds for lunch, and afterwards we went to the Leeds City Museum. Christine and I had been before, which was probably a good thing; keeping my eye on a toddler the whole time meant that I didn’t get much of a chance to see many of the exhibits. It’s actually quite a good museum for kids; the basement is full of stuffed animals, but displayed in a themed way with some activity areas for kids. And upstairs there’s a soft play area, along with a special exhibition which is usually accessible to most ages. And it’s free, and there’s free Wi-Fi. Next time we’re in Leeds, we may drop in just to use the play area to let our one-year-old burn off some energy.
Today, I met up with another parent at another soft play gym. This one was just for the under-5s, so there are no big kids to push the little ones around. And, meeting up with other parents shares the load a bit.
Tomorrow, we’re meeting friends for breakfast, and then I’m taking our one-year-old to the newly-renamed National Science and Media Museum in Bradford. Afterwards, a quick drop into work to say hi, and then a meal out with colleagues.
As for Friday? Nothing major, other than packing to go to York for the Easter weekend.
Keeping a small person entertained is tiring. Not just for me, but for our one-year-old – indeed, the reason why I have a few spare minutes to write this blog post is because they’re fast asleep. Soft play isn’t just fun for them – it also buys you time later on when they need a nap. Hashtag: parenting hacks.
